Billy Graham

Monday, January 27, 2009, will go down as one of the best days of my life. It was the day I met Billy Graham.

 

I was graciously invited by my friends Dan Cathy and David Salyers of Chick-fil-A to accompany them on a trip to North Carolina to meet Dr. Nido Qubein, president of High Point University. (I have been an admirer of the work Dr. Qubein is doing and have wanted him to come speak to our Buckhead staff for some time now.) In addition to the visit with Dr. Qubein, Dan arranged a quick side trip to see Billy Graham and he wondered if I wanted to go along.

 

I responded by saying I would eat Chick-fil-A every day for the rest of my life and away we went.

 

Dan and I, along with Rhys Stenner, pastor of New Hope Baptist Church, arrived at 11 a.m. at Billy Graham’s modest home, beautifully nestled on a mountainside in Montreat, North Carolina. His nurse, Patty, greeted us at the door and said, “Come on in. Dr. Graham is waiting for you in his study.”

 

“Is this actually happening?” was the question that kept racing through my mind. 

 

We walked through a small hallway to his study, and there sitting by himself was the man who has preached the gospel to more people than anyone who has ever lived. He has known personally every President from Harry Truman to George W. Bush. But, more importantly, he has lived a life of unquestioned integrity glorifying the name of Jesus in massive ways. He is the greatest evangelist this side of the apostle Paul. And I was now shaking his hand.

 

“It’s an honor meeting you, Dr. Graham,” was all I could get out at the moment. 

 

“Pull up a chair,” Patty said. So the three of us did so and an hour-long chat with Billy Graham ensued. I still can’t believe that the previous sentence is true. Now, I know, Dr. Graham is just a man. But still, being in his presence is different. I can’t quite explain it, but I could feel the anointing God has on his life when I was in his presence.

 

Dr. Graham recently turned 90. He has some difficulty hearing and is battling some health issues, but his mind is still sharp. Here are a few of the highlights of our hour with him.

 

·        I asked Dr. Graham what advice he would have for Rhys and me as pastors. He looked me right in the eye and said, “Spend lots and lots of time in prayer. It blesses us and touches the heart of God.” He added, “We need the Holy Spirit. Without the Holy Spirit, we’re empty.”

·        I asked him how we could pray for him. “Just pray. I need God every moment of every day.”

·        Thankfully, Dan led most of the conversation, because Rhys and I were still trying to find our footing. We would steal quick glances at each other as if to say, “Is this really happening?”

·        At one point, Dr. Graham pointed to a picture of his late wife, Ruth, and said, “I miss her greatly.” 

·        Dan, a gifted musician, brought his trumpet along to play hymns. Dr. Graham loved it.  Dan turned to me and said, “Jeff, give me a hymn.” I suddenly went blank. Hymns? Hymns? David Crowder and Steve Fee I know, but a hymn? Thankfully, the perfect one popped into my mind. “You can’t go wrong with ‘Just As I Am,’” I said. Dr. Graham smiled and there we were, listening to Dan playing “Just As I Am” on the trumpet in Billy Graham’s study. Talk about an amazing moment. 

 

What happened next is simply hard for me to describe. With our visit coming to a close, Dan said, “Dr. Graham, would you mind praying over Rhys, Jeff, and me before we leave?” 

 

“I would love to,” he said. We knelt by his chair, and he prayed for us. He prayed that God would “unusually bless us.” He prayed for our wives and our families. He prayed for the Lord to bless our ministries and Dan’s business.

 

I have no words to adequately describe what I felt at that moment. 

 

We said our good-byes and then I went over to Dr. Graham, shook his hand, leaned in, and said, “Thank you, Dr Graham. Thank you for all you have done for the kingdom.” As I recalled this for my in-laws the next night at dinner, the emotion of it all finally caught up with me. I guess it’s pretty embarrassing to cry at a barbecue restaurant, but it was a slow night so maybe no one noticed.

 

Then again, maybe a little emotion isn’t a bad thing. After all, it’s not every day you get to meet Billy Graham.

 

 

Jeff



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  • adam herod
    January 30, 2009 at 11:46 am

    Thanks for sharing this Jeff. I’m sure it was an amazing experience.

  • Wendy D
    January 30, 2009 at 12:05 pm

    What a cool story Jeff! I’m so glad God gifted you with those moments. Thanks for all you do for the Kingdom too! :)
    Wen

  • James
    January 30, 2009 at 12:27 pm

    Thanks for sharing that personal and extraordinary story Jeff.

  • Courtney
    January 30, 2009 at 1:02 pm

    Hey Jeff. What a great recap to an incredible visit. I am so thrilled for you! Thanks for all you do for all of us Buckhead Church.-court

  • Brent
    January 30, 2009 at 2:10 pm

    for a few years now I’ve regretted never making the effort to see him preach live while he was in better health. I guess the only thing better than that, would be to see him in his own home. I’m very glad for you Jeff. Now I’m even more excited about the BG book I just ordered last week.

    Re: CFA-for-life…I’d take it easy on the peppermint milkshakes.

  • andy
    January 30, 2009 at 3:06 pm

    I really enjoyed that story….

  • Randy Cook
    January 30, 2009 at 3:09 pm

    Jeff,

    Simply great!

    Thanks……..

  • Pete Wilson
    January 30, 2009 at 3:10 pm

    Holy Cow. I got emotional just reading the blog. So excited you got the opportunity Jeff. Proud of you.

  • andy darnell
    January 30, 2009 at 3:16 pm

    Wow… What a great story. Thanks for writing about it. I had wondered what the specifics were. I would have been a deer in the headlights too on the hymn question.

  • Julie
    January 30, 2009 at 4:57 pm

    Thanks for sharing the details, Jeff. I was so excited for you that day. I got chill bumps reading this post. It’s pretty funny to imagine you getting star-struck. :)

  • Andy McCullough
    January 31, 2009 at 4:05 am

    Hendu, this is awesome!

  • Thomas Pollard
    January 31, 2009 at 7:13 am

    Wow. What an incredible experience you were able to part of this week Jeff. Thanks so much for sharing your story, it brought tears to my eyes. I enjoy following your journey as a pastor, husband and father from 600 miles away. God is doing amazing things with and through you and the entire Buckhead staff. I enjoyed the hymns request story as I’m sure I would have buckeld for a moment or two or three and then would have said “The Old Rugged Cross” as that is one of my father-in-laws favorite hymns.

    By the way can you ask your friends the Saylers to look into opening some Chick-fil-A restaurants here in the Chicago area. There’s a big need for them up here. :-)

  • Lance Lockhart
    January 31, 2009 at 2:51 pm

    Wow, very heartfelt words are shared with your story. I never imagined what it would feel like to be in such company but I believe I have shared in this through your words.

  • John Ott
    February 1, 2009 at 2:34 pm

    Jeff, I’m so thankful that you were able to have that experience. How fitting for a man of your gifting and humility to meet with a man who exemplifies who you are becoming.

  • Jenni Catron
    February 1, 2009 at 4:20 pm

    What an amazing opportunity. Thank you for sharing!

  • Deborah
    February 1, 2009 at 8:54 pm

    You are TRULY one of a kind Jeff!! God has blessed you and you have shared with us all!! Thank you!! You and your family are in my prayers!!

  • Melissa Merkel
    February 1, 2009 at 9:31 pm

    This brings tears to my eyes – just like the night that I responded to one of Dr. Graham’s alter calls and accepted Christ as my personal Savior on the floor of the Georgia Dome.

    I am so glad that you had this experience!

  • Emily & Andy Hall
    February 1, 2009 at 10:31 pm

    Thank you for sharing your experience Jeff, we loved reading about your visit!

  • stephen
    February 2, 2009 at 8:55 am

    Jeff,

    Can you tell me what the inscription over the fireplace says?

  • heather
    February 2, 2009 at 10:51 am

    What I am amazed with is the humbleness of his home and his heart. Also, the fact that the Cathy family is so focused on leading a Christ filled organization using amazing mentors such as Billy Graham is a blessing for all those who are in or know of the Chick-fil-a organization.

  • Tara
    February 2, 2009 at 2:40 pm

    Jeff, you got me all choked up…
    this is so awesome… thanks for sharing, friend!

    ~T

  • Candy Sugarman
    February 3, 2009 at 10:01 am

    WOW, not only were you blessed with that amazing experience, you are so gifted in telling a story that we can share the experience. I write with tears streaming down my face.
    What a church, Andy praying for the new president at the National Prayer Service and you meeting with Dr. Graham!
    We are blessed with such leadership!

  • Antwon Davis
    February 3, 2009 at 10:43 pm

    Such a unforgettable experience for you guys.

    Glad you were graced with such an opportunity.

    Jeff,

    There are quite a few people who look at you in somewhat of the same way. Your heart and burden for ministry touches the lives of pastors and young leaders like me as well. I hope to meet you some day.

  • Jeff Henderson
    February 4, 2009 at 9:48 am

    Wow. Thanks everyone. I’m really humbled by your comments. Thanks!!!

    Stephen — I am not sure what the inscription says. I’ll try to find out.

    Thomas — I’ll pass your comments about needing CFA in Chicago along. I think they’ve looked at it before but it’s a pretty expensive place to do business. And cold!!! :-)

  • Jim Weir
    February 4, 2009 at 7:57 pm

    Thanks for sharing your visit with us Jeff! Dr. Graham certainly is an inspiration.

  • John
    February 7, 2009 at 11:23 pm

    Yes, what does it say over his fireplace?

  • Tommy S
    February 9, 2009 at 8:11 am

    Jeff,

    Thank you for sharing this..The Lord uses Mr. Graham in amazing ways. He uses you in the same ways

    The German inscription reads from Luther’s hymn “A Mighty Fortress is Our God”- God’s Ambassador by Russ Busby photograghher for Mr. Graham and BGEA

  • Hans Daniels
    February 9, 2009 at 11:38 am

    Awesome Jeff!!! Ya got my eyes watering as I read this in the dentist office.

    Let me know if you need some help eating those Chick-fil-a sandwiches everyday :)

  • Jennifer poole
    March 10, 2010 at 3:47 pm

    That’s the best story! We need more people like Billy Graham.

  • Glenn Ledbetter
    July 27, 2010 at 3:17 pm

    I liked the part about Dan playing “Just As I Am” on the trumpet just before the special prayer. The trumpet is an OLD instrument, mentioned often in the Bible (sorry, you bassoonists and clarinetists, etc.). The trumpet is heavenly. ;-)

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